The gift you provide for the lady of your choice is for her time and companionship and nothing more. It is not for sex or sexual acts and neither should ever be discussed. What happens between two consenting adults in the privacy of their chambers is their business.

Your Initial Contact

When contacting the lady of your choice for the first time, please note their preferred method of contact. Should you decide to telephone or e-mail her, both methods require your utmost professionalism and courteous manners. Please do not discuss money or sexual acts! It is, however, appropriate to tell them a little about yourself, your interests, and a little about what you are looking for in a Lady without getting too specific or graphic - they can read between the lines. Always remember, you might not get a second chance to make a first impression!

Her Verification Process

You already know a lot about your lady through her web site, yet she knows nothing about you. It's necessary to ask for a reference from another companion you may have recently seen or your employment address, phone number or web site. Please don't get offended by this. She are not asking because she's interested in your performance or the amount of money you make, it's for safety and comfort. It is also necessary to ask for ID such as a Driver's License or Passport upon meeting. Please show this information willingly, if there is any hesitancy - the date will most probably end at that moment. Remember, she's concerned about the saftey of both parties!

A Courtesans' Gift

Most Courtesans' have their gifts listed on their web site or advertisement. Please don't show up asking her how much or if she has change or anything that has to do with money. MONEY should never and will never be discussed in each other's presence.

Please be respectful! It would be very helpful and greatly appreciated if you were considerate of the following:

1. Be on time for your scheduled meeting. If you're going to be late, please notify her in advance.
   
   
2. Be Clean, well groomed, smell nice and have minty fresh breath.
   
   
3. Have your donation already counted and in an envelope (preferably Unsealed) with her name on it. It wouldn't hurt to bring a flower or a box of her favorite chocolates. Some Ladies have a "wish-list" on their site; a small gift from this list would be ideal. Remember, it's always the first impression that counts!
   
   
4. Place your envelope/card in plain view immediately upon greeting your date - not after 5 minutes of idle chat. Take care of the small stuff first so the tension is gone and your date can begin!

A couple of hints:

A. If meeting at a ladies incall location, have your gift in hand and place it somewhere around where she asks you to sit or stand. She might ask if you if you would like something to drink and when she goes to get the drinks, simply say, "may I put this down here?"

B. Now, if meeting her at your residence or hotel, after a light greeting show her that her gift is in plain view - in an envelope - Unsealed.

C. If meeting in a public place, have your gift in plain site! This is simple: Hello Stephanie, it's a pleasure to meet you, may I say that you are absolutely stunning. She will say thank you and may even give you a kiss on the cheek. You should then say to her, I couldn't believe you thought I was only 25 years old - look for yourself! The ID check is done! At this point, the envelope should be in plain site and easily reached by her.